Read This Before Hiring a Therapist for Narcissistic Abuse
If you're searching for a therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse, you're likely struggling with the aftermath of a toxic, trauma-bonded relationship. But before you choose a therapist, it’s crucial to do your research and schedule a consultation. Here’s why.
Not Every "Specialist" Truly Understands Narcissistic Abuse
With the rise in awareness about narcissism, many therapists claim to specialize in this area simply because they took a graduate course on personality disorders or watched a few popular YouTube videos. But unless they’ve truly studied the intricacies of trauma bonding—or have experienced it firsthand—they may not fully grasp the depth of what you’ve endured.
A well-meaning but uninformed therapist can be just as dismissive as the narcissist in your life. You may hear the same invalidating phrases you’ve heard from friends and family:
❌ "Why did you stay so long?"
❌ "You just need to toughen up."
❌ "Maybe you’re being too sensitive."
❌ "But she’s your mother—she loves you."
These responses can make you feel unheard and misunderstood, ultimately hindering your healing process.
Why I Specialize in recovery from Narcissistic Abuse in Los Angeles
I understand narcissism from the inside out. I also understand what it takes to heal from narcissistic abuse clinically— Once I recognized the patterns in my own life, I became deeply committed to studying narcissism and its effects. I worked with a specialized therapist for two years to process my own experiences and gain a deeper understanding of trauma bonding. I then sought specialized clinical training, worked with a consultant, and became certified as a narcissistic abuse therapist.
If you're in the grip of trauma stress, finding the right therapist in Los Angeles specializing in narcissitic abuse recovery can feel overwhelming. Let’s make it easier. Schedule a free consultation to see if we’re the right fit. If you don’t see a time that works, email me at cynthia@cynthiaeddings.com, and we’ll find a time that does.